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  • Do you see newbies?
    As long as you understand and consent to my vetting/screening process. I get it, and kudos to you my friend for stepping and trying/seeing something/someone you. I refuse to see anyone that may have ill intend. I love creating new secrets, but without trust there is nothing. Consent is a concept that refers to the voluntary and informed agreement or permission given by an individual to engage in a specific activity, receive a particular treatment, or participate in a particular situation. Do not trust all men, but trust men of worth; the former course is silly, the latter a mark of prudence. ~ Democritus
  • What's the deal with screening/vetting?
    You are either an asset or a liability. I only see gentlepersons that understand this. By screening you are giving permission and permission is the sexiest form of submission. I screen very thoroughly. Security and privacy are important for us to establish a safe, open, and honest relationship. You've seen me and know of me, but I have no idea who you are. I am strong, hear me roar, but I'm also not going to see someone that may jeopardize what I have built and am building. It is necessary for my security to verify anyone I may meet. My screening process is discreet and your privacy is very important to me, any and all information provided to me will be treated with the utmost confidentiality.
  • How do I get screened/vetted?
    My screening process is discreet and your privacy is very important to me, any information provided to me will be treated with the utmost confidentiality. Once again we're circling back around that trust thing. All new friends must initially schedule a consultation. It's just like booking any other professional appointment. You'd pick an appointment a duration a date a time and then you'd fill out any questions. pay a deposit via debit/credit card (names must match) No prepaid cards Once vetted, I am open to other scheduling options. ***A professional discreet business name will appear under coaching/consulting. Any snooping will lead my couples coaching service.
  • Why do I have to pay a deposit and how?
    A deposit is a sign of value and respect. It shows that you have consideration of time and understand that just maybe there's some sort of preparation that goes into curating our time. There's a couple of ways that you can get me a deposit you have access to schedule yourself, it's part of the screening process if I've seen you before, CashApp, Zelle, Money Gram or cash
  • I really want to see you, but I can't use my bank card to book you...
    In other words, for our initial meet you don't want anything to show on your bank statement. Honey, I've heard almost all the excuses. Where there is a will there is a way. And most make a way by opening up a secret bank account. I'm not going to compromise. Others have done what I asked, why should I make special regards for someone I have never met or done anything for me. Thanks for trying, but no there is no other options for new friends.
  • What's your schedule like, I can get away during the weekday?
    All you can do is request. Sundays are my me days, but if there is some travel and the right convincing I just might see you. Typically, the best time to catch me is mornings.
  • I've tried to reach you...
    Chances are, I AM probably ignoring you. If you've tried to reach me in a way that wasn't becoming, I deleted it and kept moving. 'Lions never looses sleep over the opinions of sheep.' I personally do not speak to clients until they have booked me with deposit. If you want to engage with me via phone, text, or video chat prior to our first meeting you can call or text via NiteFlirt. I have no time for uncertainties or time wasters. if you feel you must talk to me, hear my voice then show me that you respect my time. Do better if you really want me to respond. Everything is written out for you how to get my attention.
  • What kind of space am I seeing you in and is it safe?
    A married man once told you, if you have shit to loose only fuck with those that have shit to protect. First off, you can never guarantee safety of anywhere. But, if you are coming to my space I like to provide discreet parking, so no one can pinpoint where you are It's just you and I and sometimes Goose (my security dog) it will either be a home setting or really nice hotel
  • What's a session like?
    My dear, every snowflake is different. Our session is curated based on us. I take your idea or, in most circumstances, your consent and create an addictive experience. Of course I plan time for warming up the body, take considerations of possible precautions, and there is always time for after care and the cum-down.
  • How do I prepare for my session?
    I'm so glad you asked! Hygiene is so important. It is hard to work with someone that doesn't smell good or at least fresh. Make it a point to shower before we begin, and you are more than welcome to shower after. I do love a good smelling man, but don't lay the cologne and scents on heavy. Please, groomed, and trim nails and cuticles feet and that includes toenails. Be clean shaven or have a beard or mustache but no stubble, that day stubble hurts my wonderfully soft skin. Oh and there is mouthwash. Please use it as it is provided for a reason! For friends that anticipate anal/prostate play. Use a water enema prior to our engagement at least 2 hours before. If we’re doing heavy anal play, I recommend taking an Imodium 6 hours prior to our rendezvous. CLICK HERE for instructions
  • What is Bondassage?
    Ever wonder what it might be like to explore your submissive desires? To let go and completely surrender? Perhaps we can be of service … Light bondage … sensory deprivation … esoteric bodywork and sensation play … whether you’re a novice or an experienced player, we’re delighted to be your guide on a journey of submission, exploration, and pleasure. Are you ready to completely let go of control and surrender to pure bliss? BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism) has been kept in the shadows for eons. Often, it is through exploring and embracing the shadow side of ourselves that we find transformation and healing. Letting go is the ultimate power, and this incredibly sensual art form is unlike anything you’ve ever experienced or even imagined. It all starts with you naked and kneeling … a leather collar around your neck and padded cuffs softly binding your wrists and ankles. Your eyes are covered with a soft, furry blindfold. Lightly secured to a comfortably padded massage table, you sink deeply into your body as a selection of specially selected sounds play through your headphones. As you surrender to the sensations and forget the outside world, we take you to a place of exquisite enjoyment, a place where you can indulge your senses and embrace the pleasure. Imagine … Imagine warm, experienced hands working their way over your body … gently kneading, touching, stroking … Deep relaxation takes over, permeating every part of your being. As you shed your tension, you drift into a level of profound relaxation. You’re safe, you’re happy, you’re in complete bliss. You emerge satiated and energized, ready to focus on your life and your work. Discover a world of blissful intensity and intimacy You deserve it. Come and experience this deliciously creative playground and awaken to a profound level of pleasure and relaxation. Bondassage® Certified Practitioners combine innovative bodywork techniques with subtle breath and energy work, rhythmic body percussion, slow luxurious flogging, and a delicious menu of skilled sensation play. A whole new world of pleasure and relaxation … Once you’ve experienced Bondassage, you’ll never forget. Discover what you’ve been missing.
  • What kind of Domme are you?
    Wonderful question, I am Sensual, it's the deliberate tease of my touches, it's the glimpses of my smell that you crave with the taunt of my nectar. Stern, I believe in discipline physically, mentally and financially A Pegging Princess, my favorite way to assert my dominance is in your moans and groans and anus A Brat, I want what I want when I want it and you know this Queen deserves it Humiliation, my smile and laughter is the only thing that really matters The Caregiver, its the after-care that reminds you of pleasure That's me in a delightful nutshell
  • What are your limits and boundaries?
    I glad to see you took the initiative to ask. MY HARD LIMITS AND BOUNDARIES: Scat Play Ruby play Any sort of photography or filming Bare back Degradation of any race, gender, sex, sexuality, body type, or religion Multiple emails and/or Long emails A third person for our first date Watches, especially Apple watches, in the bedroom Also, let me know if you have hard limits, psychological boundaries, physical limitations, or past or present injuries and/or chronic pain. If you don’t know your “hard limits” think about what could trigger you. It’s okay to know what we want and don’t want.
  • What is your favorite way to play?
    I loving playing into your fantasy Black Minxtress Girlfriend. As Minxtress, I love kinky outings that require remotes making you feel wanted and denied all at the same time controversial conversations playing with ropes that I look amazing with a strap on using my custom 'Cherry' paddle my feet, to trample and then be worshipped by you penis humiliation, some are just too small and others can be funny looking most of all my imagination, discovery starts will communication
  • Can I fly you to me?
    I love wanderlust! I keep my duffle and passport by the door. Click Here for my FMTY tributes
  • I want to fly in and visit you...
    I am a great hostess
  • Do you tour?
    Yes and no.
  • Do you do outcalls?
    It is not at all my preference to visit private homes.
  • I'm a Bondassage® trainer/practitioner
    The only other thing I can love as much as practicing it, is showing others this delectable sequence.
  • I've actually had some formal coaching and training.
    I like to play rough, but I always want the opportunity to play again.
  • What I'm like in real life.
    You're meeting me in my real life.
  • What it is Heaux, what's up?
    I totally stand in solidarity with my fellow SWers.
  • I'm like that awesome Auntie
    I'm old enough to know better, yet still young enough to not give a fuck.
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