A Better Understanding  

Of course Kitty isn't the name on my birth certificate, but she has always been me.

Tired of the gimmicks and re-inventions. 

From indulgent interactions to tantalizing touches. The authenticity is what I missed.

I had to take a step back to give you the best of me

I missed my quirkiness; some people have called me weird, I'd say eccentric

I missed my fearlessness; my adventurous spirit to explore and try new things

I missed my voice; not being afraid to speak up not just for me.

Everything is always consensual

(even when forced)


Touching Bodies

Yes, I'll admit it. I am a natural little dominant that can be a bit aggressive, but I do love helping people through touch. And naturally I'm a little pervert that wants to rub on you and give you such amazing release. I believe that the best heeling involves body, mind, spirit and sensuality. 



Good Company

“She was struck by the simple truth that sometimes the most ordinary things could be made extraordinary, simply by doing them with the right people...”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Lucky One

It's so true! We are good on our own, but it so much more fun when you have the right companion. We're not always emotionally available but we still need and want company. We are conditioned to feel and do better when we acquire energy from others. The best thing about energy is that it comes in so many forms and is transferable, but let's make sure we only share positive vibes.

Mind Games

I love to play mind games and you crave to be degraded and insulted because you know you deserve it. You deserve to beg and grovel, but not just from anyone, you want Kitty, there's something about how she gets in your head and makes you question yourself. There's something about you way you hate how sullen you feel when she points out your truths. Once she discovers that button, your humiliation will be exhilarating and addicting. You love the idea and believe that she keeps you in a hypnotic trance, she's conditioned you to certain smells, and  particular words and sounds. She has even created mesmerizing art to remind you of your conditioning

Physical Amusement

“The sadist desires to command and control. The masochist desires to be freed from the burdens of liberty. That is Socialism.”
― A.E. Samaan

I love to administer pain, it's not just about the physical sensations, it's the mental anguish and anxiety. Like a kitten being amused with a ball of yearn, there's such happiness in watching it wiggle and unravel. To stare deep into your eyes as you don't know how to cry out. Temperatures, textures, vibrations; spikes, hooks and furs; Oh My! My imagination has no sensor. Of my writings, which do you think I've done and what do you think I want to do.



I love things that are pretty! Would you get pretty for me? We'll go shopping, play with hair and make up and even make it a night on the town. You'll be my very own Sissy. There is something about a man in a dress that starts my engine and what really gets it revving is the things I can get him to do. Lipstick, high-heels, pantyhose and a bra! Sometimes, I might keep you inside use and abuse you, other times I just may dress you up and make you walk the mean streets while a watch. After a wearing a suite or being dirty all day, you deserve a little feMENization.

Financial Spoilings

In the great words of Marilyn Monroe, happiness is not in money, but in shopping. 

Since the dawn of currency, man has made up for his short comings and/or lack of good looks with money. I believe that should never be in the presence a lady or woman without a gift in his hand. Getting gifts of shoes is my favorite. Purses are fun, but luggage with cash is way better. Honestly, I'd prefer you 'hard' earned cash and for you to watch me spend it and carry my bags. If you can't join, even better, I get a thrill out teasing you with pics and videos of what I'm up to with your money.